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http://verticalspecs.blogspot.in/2015/01/how-to-move-beyond-fight.html
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So here I am asking a question for every Indian girl/boy who is in a relationship:
Do you feel that your relationship comes to an end whenever you fight with your partner?
Well I can give you two answers for this.
1. One answer is “Yes”.
This is an over imaginative and a more practical answer. By doing some survey, I found that this kind of answer is given by people who are less confident and tend to compare their relationship with others.
2. Another answer is “No”.
Now you may think that this answer is a little sugarcoated. But believe me this answer has more depth and meaning if you ask me.
Let me give you an example:
Whenever you are in the middle of a fight, do you ever think that-
But rather, 99% of people think that-
By thinking in this manner, you are blaming a relationship that you work hard to build with your partner for which you are equally a part in which you are also involved. At such a point, do not think about anything negative.
At this point, you just need to follow some simple steps:
Step 1: Just think about the best moment that you had with your partner.
Step 2: STOP BLAMING each other.
Step 3: Take a break and come back later when both are at peace.
Step 4: Try to discuss each others mistakes in a peaceful place.
Step 5: Give you relation another chance and work upon those mistakes.
Now as a conclusion, I would like to say that, it is necessary to fight with your partner to find out your inner faults and improve them.
This will make you
So FIGHTS ARE GOOD for a healthy relationship, but it’s all up to you that how do you deal with these fights.
So here I am asking another question:
Which answer do you prefer?
Answer lies within your heart.
http://verticalspecs.blogspot.in/2015/01/how-to-move-beyond-fight.html
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So here I am asking a question for every Indian girl/boy who is in a relationship:
Do you feel that your relationship comes to an end whenever you fight with your partner?
Well I can give you two answers for this.
1. One answer is “Yes”.
This is an over imaginative and a more practical answer. By doing some survey, I found that this kind of answer is given by people who are less confident and tend to compare their relationship with others.
STOP COMPARING AND GROW UP!
2. Another answer is “No”.
Now you may think that this answer is a little sugarcoated. But believe me this answer has more depth and meaning if you ask me.
Let me give you an example:
Whenever you are in the middle of a fight, do you ever think that-
- Why is it happening?
- At what point did it start?
- How can I sort it out?
- Is it even necessary to fight?
- Can’t I discuss it?
But rather, 99% of people think that-
- OMG! It has come to an end.
- No one can ever sort it out.
- I know that this will happen one day.
- Its all his/her fault.
- This is not my cup of tea.
By thinking in this manner, you are blaming a relationship that you work hard to build with your partner for which you are equally a part in which you are also involved. At such a point, do not think about anything negative.
JUST BREATH AND HAVE SOME PATIENCE!
Step 1: Just think about the best moment that you had with your partner.
Step 2: STOP BLAMING each other.
Step 3: Take a break and come back later when both are at peace.
Step 4: Try to discuss each others mistakes in a peaceful place.
Step 5: Give you relation another chance and work upon those mistakes.
Now as a conclusion, I would like to say that, it is necessary to fight with your partner to find out your inner faults and improve them.
This will make you
- strong
- confident
- will create more understanding between you and your partner.
So FIGHTS ARE GOOD for a healthy relationship, but it’s all up to you that how do you deal with these fights.
So here I am asking another question:
Which answer do you prefer?
Answer lies within your heart.
